Saner Minds Prevail
Erica P. Cahanding
SD, single. Feb 19th. <3
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Photo reblogged from Girl meets World.
“Before you can grow up, you must fall in love 3 times.
Once you must fall in love with your best friend, ruining your friendship forever. This will teach you who your true friends are, and the fine line between friendship and more.
Once you must fall in love with someone you believe to be perfect. You will learn that no one is perfect, and that you should never be treated as any less than you deserve.
And once you must fall in love with someone that is exactly like you. This will teach you about who you are, and who you want to be.
And when you’re through with all that, you learn that the people who care about you the most are the ones that you hurt, and the ones that hurt you are the ones that you needed the most.”
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Post reblogged from Love is not visible
The person that pulls through the rough times. The one that stays by your side through thick and thin. The one that understands you and does their best to cheer you up. The one that loves you for you. Don’t leave them, because he/she is a keeper.
(Source: illestswagsta)
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Photo reblogged from Good times call for desperate measures.
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Its nice to read your story.. such a long relationship, started beautifully but didnt end so. I can only imagine the pain you felt. But does your heart still ache, honestly?
Asked by Anonymous
thanks(: & no it doesn’t ache one bit. because I look back on it as a happy memory. & I gained so much knowledge that I could use later for my next relationship. whenever that may be. I’m nothing but just plain thankful he was a part of my life, even if he no longer is.
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Tell us your story w/ Everett. I know its been done but its nice to relive from day one.
Asked by Anonymous
you dont have to try to convince me to tell you by saying its nice to relive…
but- here’s the jist of it all.
We met in Feburary of 2009…at montevalle at a bboy sesh.
The next day, i asked his friend josh for his number & decided to text him.
We ended up talking on and off for a year, because i didnt want to be involved with him in the “party” scene.
He went out with a girl after that. but they had complications so he called me a lot for advice.
I asked him to help tutor me after a family party on December 25th…
Eventually, we started dating on New Years day of 2010….
well it was actually the last day of december at like 10:50…but we just decided on New Years.
From there it was like any other couple.we fell madly in love. always writing eachother letters and sending them by mail, leaving cute notes for eachother, and just suffocating eachother in all the loving things we could think about.
we went on a lot of great adventures;
disneyland, buying a hamster, trying new foods, getting purposely lost in areas in hopes of finding something new, watching movies late at the park, prom, seaworld, the zoo, safari park, etc. etc…
things took a turn for the worst when we broke up a few times.
we always tried to change everything back to the way things were but it was a hopeless attempt destined for failure.
we then both did things we could never imagine ourselves doing two years before that, and it wasnt healthy for us to stay together.
too many nights full of yelling and tears suddenly wasnt worth it anymore.
point blank, someone stopped trying.
“i just dont care anymore” were the words he said.
i left crying and drove away. this time i didnt drive back.
October 6, 2011.
and now, he is no longer a part of my life. but i wish him the best. always.
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What days do you work?(:
Asked by Anonymous
I work pretty much everyday ! but coming up I have a surgery so I had to take a lot of days off :/ this week I worked today, and I’m working Saturday and Sunday as well(: come visit !!
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do you want to get back? /: say yes /:
Asked by Anonymous
well.. I guess right now it’s a maybe. I’d have to talk it out with him if that happened.
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do you think you guys will get back? /:
Asked by Anonymous
it’s really up to him… youd have to talk I him cos I don’t know ..
